Yes, I agree with your "great divide" theory among fetishers. I am "living" proof of the side that did not grow up around smoking and having the opportunity to become "close" to a female smoker. One of the reasons that I wanted to tell of my transition from anti-smoking to pro-smoking was to make others aware that people can change. Another reason was to get feed-back so as to help me understand my own situation and feelings regarding my enjoyment of watching a female smoke. Thanks again to you and all of the others that have taken the time to read and reply to my posts.
