As for our differing opinions on whether woman have smoking fetishes, isn't that what these boards our about? Exchanging our viewpoints about the fetish......I do not see where either of our egos comes into play.

Sorry I couldn't help the original poster in this thread. But I am not fortunate enough to have a wife that indulges my fetish. I have been burned the two times I even breeched the subject with woman.......Since then I haven't had the nerve to bring it up with any of my smoking ex-girlfriends. Of course I knew nothing about others having the fetish while I was dating these woman........I suspect that AJ and I have much in common. I am glad things worked out so well for you Shawn. But for some of us, telling others about our smoking fetish is not that easy. Especially if the girls we happen to be dating know others in our circle of friends.......AJ is correct when he states that many without the fetish would not understand it. In fact many would consider us freaks or perverts.