Re : Wondering.... -- C
Back in the late 1980s I remember several femdom magazines had smoking fetish letters and some pictures. It confirmed to me I was not "the only one" with the fetish. Yet it gave me the wrong perception that everyone with the fetish had "dark side" interests. At the time, I thought there was a direct correlation between femdom and female smoking. I felt every woman smoker was dominant to some degree or another and that her smoking was an extension of that. I also thought that dominant men in geneal hated female smoking and that submissive men in general loved female smoking. I had all kinds of ideas floating in my mind back in the 80s. However, long ago I have come to realize that the "dark side" is just a subset of the fetish. In fact, even the "dark side" can be split up into various subfetishes. Some guys have a fetish for women getting lung cancer and other smoking related diseases, I am the exact opposite, any thought of disease turns me off, I wish smoking wasn't as dangerous to health as it is.
|
