Well Dale, it is certainly true you never know if your wife or GF is going to quit smoking. However, for every post I've seen here lamenting about their S.O. quitting, I've seen 20 from guys complaining that she's an anti, she's got asthma, she hates smoking, she'll never smoke, what do I do?, how can I get her to start?, etc. etc. I maintain that starting out on the right foot by only dating/becoming involved with smokers is the sensible thing for any guy who truly has the fetish. YMMV.