The time when I realized once and for all that I was totally infatuated with smoking women was the late 1950s.I caught it from both directions. Went to an inner city type high school where a lot of the girls I knew were proud of their smoking prowess, and they made sure that I knew it.
Then at home a lot of my mother's friends were the same exact types, and they made sure I expereinced their powerful smoke clouds.