I've got an issue and I'd like some advice, please. I'm a 24 year old guy with a smoking fetish. So, I've got a long-term live-in girlfriend who is smart, funny, caring, successful, and very pretty. She is also asthmatic and extremely concerned with health... and so, of course, she is a nonsmoker. That will not be changing. I love her very much. However, I often catch myself fantasizing about women smoking, and have a really hard time not staring when I see an attractive woman lighting up. Infidelity is definitely not an option, but I feel like something is missing. Have any of you been through the same thing? Do you have any advice? Thanks.-Kyle
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