Hey I am married to one of those women, yep I am a non smoker and I do not stand in the way of her smoking, without cigarettes she is a monster, anyway, she smokes heavily, and of course she can not drive without smoking, in her case though, the drivers side window is stuck in the up position due to the motor being bad, so she has no choice, she cant even throw her butts out the window. We have two small kids who ride in thier car seats in the back, and you know they get a good dose of smoke everytime they are in the car. Me personally dont ride in her car, it is a mess, but it does not seem to bother her. I do on occassion empty the ashtray, which is always so full I dont know how she can fit another butt in there, and I will vacumn the ashes out of the carpet, but I guess she does care if the kids are subjected to her smoking, they are probably used to it seeing how she smoked while carrying both of them.