Hey man thanks for the great advice. I dont think she will budge, but I will give it a shot. What should I do bring home some VS 120s or ML 100s or Capris 120s and say just try one for me? You know the old saying you cant get blood from a stone, well I think my wife is that stone. I really want her to realize that I really want to see her smoke a real cigarette, even if its outside on the back patio, I dont care, Ill probably want to smoke with her, damn wouldnt that be nice!!!!